Revealed: How underwear affects desire

"My husband likes to wear tight white underwear that reaches to his waist, but I lose interest in him when I see this kind of underwear. God knows, wearing those underwear makes him look like an immature teenager. What should I do?"

Sexologists explained that a study found that 92% of men believe that sexy underwear is the most provocative outfit.

But knowing is one thing, and whether you can do it is another. "As far as I know, many couples will encounter such problems, especially those who have been married for many years." The expert himself has also had this trouble. "My wife used to love wearing a certain brand of long velvet satin nightgown. It made her look like a strict grandmother, which was very distasteful."

In fact, vision is the first channel for people to understand the opposite sex. The beauty of the opposite sex is first discovered by vision, and the resulting pleasurable feeling stimulates the brain and awakens sexual consciousness. Almost anything we see can be a stimulus. On the contrary, if all you see are things you don’t like, your sexual desire will inevitably be greatly reduced.

"Couples should discuss this topic naturally and casually. For example, Christmas is coming, so why not buy your partner some underwear you like and ask them to try them on. When he/she puts them on, be very generous in giving compliments," said the expert.

Or you can quietly put your newly bought sexy lingerie in the other person's closet, which will clearly convey an important message - I think you will be particularly attractive in this.