Can you have a close relationship with a girlfriend who persuades you to break up? What is the mentality of a girlfriend who persuades you to break up?

Why do girls like to persuade their besties to break up? That's because there are many topics for girls to chat about. When you are in love, you will definitely like to share your love affairs with your besties, most of which are complaints. In your besties' minds, the image of your boyfriend has long been deeply rooted. If your boyfriend is not good to you, your besties will naturally persuade you to break up. After all, those who are involved are confused, but those who are not involved are clear.

Can I still have a close relationship with my best friend who advised me to break up?

Your best friend who advises you to break up is doing it for your own good, not because she is jealous of your well-being.

Some of it is because you often complain about your boyfriend's shortcomings to your best friends. As your best friend, of course she will put herself in your shoes and understand you, so of course she will be very angry. But after this happens many times, sometimes when she hears about how your boyfriend behaves towards you and sees that you are being wronged, she will of course advise you to break up.

Therefore, this kind of best friend is worth making close friends with. In fact, if you have your own thoughts and still want to continue dating your boyfriend, just ignore her. Maybe when you regret it and break up in the future, she will be there to accompany you.

What is the mentality of a girlfriend who advises breaking up?

1. Many times, it is because after a quarrel with a boyfriend, a best friend often complains to her about the boyfriend's shortcomings. When the two are in a good relationship, she will not tell her best friend. Of course, she will think that the other party is not a good person and decisively persuade them to break up.

2. In fact, I simply feel that if he lets you down, then don't be together and don't be sad for him anymore. I can also give you small gifts and accompany you to do what you want. If you want, I can also write songs for you. Why should I be sad for a big pig's hoof when I treat my best friend so attentively? Anyway, there are so many people, and if this one is gone, there will be another one.

3. Afraid that she would be sad, afraid that she would put her trust in the wrong person

4. Because girls can better understand why girls are angry, while boys often think that girls think too much.

5. I feel that my best friend is so outstanding that no man or woman other than me is worthy of her.

6. I personally think the main reason is that girls will complain about the bad things about boys to their girlfriends, especially when they are quarreling [sad face]. Then, as a girlfriend, they will definitely be furious when they hear it. Most boys don’t know why girls are angry, although they will think that girls are a bit pretentious. Boys’ personalities rarely complain, so boys’ friends are not likely to persuade them to break up.

Why does my best friend feel strange after falling in love?

"Putting more emphasis on affection than friendship" is a common problem among almost all human beings.

Once you enter into a relationship, most of your spare time, energy and thoughts will be spent on your partner.

Naturally, for close friends and buddies during the single period, the time spent together, energy and thought spent will be greatly reduced.

If your best friend is the kind of girl who is easily immersed in sweet love, then you may not see her anymore after she falls in love.

Unless she had a fight/she had a breakup, etc.

You will never be able to return to the stage where you can talk about everything, and you will no longer be her closest person, the person she cares about the most.

From this perspective, your feeling that you may lose this friend is a judgment and prediction that is more in line with the facts.