What should I do if my wife is very strong and has a bad temper?

Every couple has a different way of getting along with each other. Only when the two are humble to each other in life can they live more harmoniously. However, people's personalities are different. One thing that troubles some men is that their wives have a very bad temper. What should they do if their wives are very strong and have a bad temper? In fact, a person’s character cannot be changed, but men should think about why their wives are strong and have bad tempers. They should not keep arguing with them. The more they argue, the worse their relationship will become.

How to deal with a strong and bad-tempered wife

We need to look for problems within ourselves

Why does your wife have such a bad temper? Why does she get angry when things are fine? Is it because you have done something wrong and you don’t even realize it? This requires you to pay more attention to your own minor flaws, or simply ask other people to see what flaws of yours that make it difficult for others to get along with you, and correct them in time. For example, if you are a person who procrastinates in doing things, and your wife is impatient, she will definitely get angry with you if you keep dragging her out.

Maybe your wife often loses her temper to get your attention and hopes that you can spend more time with her. This is just her way of expressing her emotions. Therefore, you need to spend more time with your wife and praise her more often. Don't make all kinds of excuses for not having time. You can't be unwilling to spend time with the person you love most and spend your whole life with, or unwilling to say a few nice words to her.

Strong kiss

No matter how strong a woman is, she will have a little woman's heart that longs to be cared for. When she shows signs of negative emotions, giving her a strong kiss will surely make it difficult for her to get angry. For women, if men take their actions for granted, then even if women still feel some resistance in their hearts, they will naturally come to think that "obeying him is a matter of course." Women essentially still retain the same psychological dependence as their grandmothers. They may no longer say things like "I'll do whatever you say", but they cannot get rid of their desire for men to have the final say on some matters.

Provide a fresh feeling

Women always like fresh feelings rather than monotony. The fatigue of life can turn a gentle beauty into a bad-tempered woman. Therefore, you must learn to bring some freshness to your marriage and make your life richer. Naturally, resentment will be difficult to breed.

Small gift, big surprise

Maybe you have been together for many years, but don't forget to surprise your wife with small gifts from time to time. Don't say that you are an old married couple and don't care about those formalities. No matter how well you understand each other, you cannot deny the fact that women like a little romance. There is no shortcut to love. Only smart men know how to seize the opportunity to achieve twice the result with half the effort.

Life is made less sweet

Although women always criticize men's sweet words, in fact few women can refuse men's sweet words. Women like to be cared for by men, which will make them feel that you are a caring person. Think about it, will a strong wife quarrel even more fiercely after hearing you say sweet words? I think normal people can hardly do that! So, say more sweet words to let the woman know that you have her in your heart.

Be brave to take responsibility

Men must have the courage to take their responsibilities, because the ideal man for women should first be someone who is brave enough to take responsibility. How many of the promises you made when you were in love have you fulfilled for her? Including commitments to love, commitments to family, commitments to the future, almost all issues that women care about are things that men need to commit to.