Is it painful when the virginity is broken?

When a woman has sex for the first time after marriage, her hymen is about to break, but does it hurt a lot? For women, the first time will be painful. The hymen is a relatively thin membrane. Women think that the pain during the first time is due to the rupture of the hymen. In fact, it is caused by the first stimulation of the vagina. Therefore, women need to take good care of men during their first time.

Why would a woman's hymen rupture during her first sexual intercourse? In fact, the female hymen is just a thin film, a layer of ring-shaped tissue located at the vaginal opening, with poor elasticity and a virgin hole on it. However, the pain most women experience during their first sexual intercourse is not caused by a ruptured hymen. The severe pain of first sexual intercourse is not closely related to the hymen. The actual pain is that women have vaginal spasm.

There are many muscles surrounding the female vaginal opening. These muscles are too sensitive and will contract involuntarily during the first sexual intercourse. If the male sexual organ is forcibly inserted, it will cause pain, and in severe cases, it may even cause swelling of the vulva. When a woman has her first sexual intercourse, she should have sufficient foreplay to make her vagina moist and lubricated. If the preparation before sex is not sufficient, it will cause some pain when the man forcibly enters. On the other hand, there are also psychological reasons for women. During the first sexual intercourse, women may be too nervous, which may cause psychological and physical pain to a certain extent.

Sometimes the rupture of the hymen is not caused by sexual intercourse. The hymen is just a thin ring-shaped tissue located at the vaginal opening. Vigorous exercise by women can also cause rupture of the hymen to a certain extent. For example, the genitals are hit during vigorous exercise, which is common in gymnastics exercises such as riding astride the balance beam and stretching in the "splits". In most cases, it will also lead to the rupture of the hymen.

For cases of pain, it is recommended that these women undergo behavioral therapy in the hospital or at home: after sufficient lubrication, use a penis-shaped object to probe their vagina, gently moving it in and out; start with smaller objects, gradually insert larger ones after getting used to them, and finally insert an object as big as an erect penis to simulate. In this way, the vaginal spasm and pain during first-time sexual intercourse can be gradually eliminated.