Why is it so painful for a girl the first time?

For virgins, the first sexual intercourse will be more or less painful. There are many reasons for the pain. Because the hymen has not yet broken at this time, the external genitalia is relatively closed. During sexual intercourse, rough movements can cause particular pain to girls. If both men and women are particularly inexperienced in sexual intercourse and in terms of movements, the pain will be more obvious.

Why is it so painful for a girl the first time?

You should know that women's external genitalia are normally tightly closed, which can prevent bacteria and microorganisms from entering the vagina and causing infection. Only during sexual intercourse, when a woman is fully sexually excited, will the labia majora and minora become engorged and extended, exposing the vaginal opening, preparing for sexual intercourse. More importantly, when women are fully sexually excited, a large amount of glandular secretions and body fluids will "leak", which fill the vagina and vaginal opening. They act as excellent lubricants, which can induce the penis to enter the vagina and prevent the soft vaginal mucosa from being damaged by strong friction when the hard penis enters the vagina.

If one does not understand this physiological characteristic and is eager to have sexual intercourse before the woman is fully sexually excited, the vaginal opening will not be fully open, the vagina will be too dry, and the hard penis will be forced into the vagina, causing friction and damage to the vaginal mucosa, causing pain during intercourse, and in severe cases, it may even cause vaginal tearing and bleeding. In this case, it is impossible for women to experience an orgasm, and all they can feel is pain and hurt.

Women who are experiencing sex for the first time often find it difficult to achieve sufficient sexual excitement because they are too nervous. In other words, their vagina is often not fully prepared for sex. Some women even experience vaginal spasm due to fear of sexual intercourse. If her sexual partner is also inexperienced, it is easy for the forced insertion of the penis to cause friction and damage to the vaginal mucosa, causing pain.

Generally speaking, this situation will improve or disappear after a certain number of sexual experiences and accumulation of a certain amount of sexual experience. If you have a lot of sexual experience and still feel pain every time you have sex, you should consider other reasons.

In a small number of women, pain during sexual intercourse may be due to a tough or closed hymen, or scarring after trauma, surgery, or childbirth, or vaginal narrowing. Very rarely, it is caused by congenital vaginal malformation, absence of vagina, etc. Modern medicine can easily treat the above cases. Simple scar release, plastic surgery, or vaginoplasty are enough to completely solve the problem. These operations can only be regarded as ordinary operations. So, if you are unfortunate enough to have this condition, don't be afraid to confront your doctor.

A smaller number of women experience dyspareunia during certain sexual positions due to variations in the anatomical shape of the pubic bone, which results in a sharp edge of the pubic bone. At this time, you should avoid having sexual intercourse in this position.