Advice from a psychologist to women, a must-read for women!

Between nice lies and unpleasant truths, most people may prefer to listen to nice lies. Therefore, this requires us to have the ability to distinguish right from wrong in many people, things and objects in life. Women also need to know how to deal correctly with aspects such as choosing a mate, self-respect, and boys. These principles really need to be understood.

1. About choosing a spouse

1. Don’t assume that men and women of the same age will love each other until old age. Women should never look for younger men. A girl starts menstruating at the age of fourteen and stops menstruating at the age of forty-nine. A man's sixteen sperms are born and his sixty-fourth sperm dies. If people of the same age get married, the man will inevitably betray love after middle age. It's not for any other reason, it's just because of the natural physiological reasons... Therefore, the sage Confucius once said that men can get married at the age of 30 and women at the age of 20.

2. Always remember that economic foundation comes first. According to traditional Chinese medicine, the heart governs fire and the lungs govern metal. As for men, they give their money to the one they love. If you don’t give money, you are not sincere. Empty talk is just deceiving. Play romance and fool people.

3. Never be a third party. When a man can betray his wife to be with you, he will definitely betray you for another woman, and your situation will be worse than his wife.

4. It is best to marry someone of equal social status. It depends on the other person’s parents and family. Human nature is hereditary. Children whose parents are not compatible will also find it difficult to handle family relationships.

5. Girls should not believe that there are honest and decent men in this world. There are only men who don’t have the chance to do bad things for the time being.

6. Girls should be careful of men who like to swear. They are never good men. They just talk but do not keep their promises. They swear lightly and must be betraying others.

2. About men

A capable man loves himself as well as his wife, and the family is warm and harmonious.

A man without ability only loves himself, orders his wife around, and is cold and indifferent.

A capable man will not be angry with his wife because he knows that hurting loved ones is a sign of incompetence.

A man with no ability is more powerful than anyone else at home because he is used to authority.

Capable men will have a happy family because they understand and respect and know how to love a woman.

An incompetent man will have a short-lived happy family, because love under authority is nothing but slavery.

3. About Myself

1. Don’t compare yourself with others, but try to surpass yourself. If you want to cry, cry out tears of excitement. If you want to laugh, laugh out a growing character.

2. Instead of regretting today with tears, it is better to work hard today with sweat.

3. When the tears run out, what should be left is strength.

4. Life is like a cup of coffee without sugar. It tastes bitter, but the aftertaste will linger for a long time.

5. There is a kind of fate that becomes a scenery after letting go; there is a heart that persists and shows sincerity.

6. Choose what you love and love what you choose.