How to achieve a perfect first night for women

A woman’s first sexual intercourse is crucial, representing the process of transitioning from a girl to a woman, and can be described as a true rite of passage. Many girls have little knowledge about sex, and their first sexual intercourse may lead to an unexpected pregnancy or gynecological infection, which is a bad start. The following is a brief introduction of what you should pay attention to during your first night. I hope all girls can take good care of themselves, make sex have a perfect start, and become happy little women.

1. Be prepared physically and mentally, don’t be nervous

Be mentally prepared and don't be too nervous. Worrying too much will affect the good atmosphere. If you are just a couple or engaged, but not married yet, and you are mentally prepared for his sexual demands, then you can have sex with him. If you still have concerns in your heart, please consider it carefully. According to a survey, 90% of women who have sex before marriage will have varying degrees of regret and remorse. Some regret not saving their virginity for their husbands, and some regret that the men they devoted themselves to no longer love them as much.

2. Understand physiological structure and sexual knowledge

Gynecologists recommend that first sex should not be done within a week before or after menstruation, because during this period the female vagina becomes drier than usual due to a lot of congestion and bleeding. Therefore, it is not recommended to have first sex at this time as it will increase pain. In addition, you should also master some basic common sense, such as keeping the vulva clean and fresh, and doing a good job of contraception before or after sex.

3. Take it slow on your first night, don’t get discouraged

Many times, the first time, people will be discouraged because the woman's vagina is too tight, causing intense pain. At this time, men must not complain, but should promptly counsel the girl and tell her not to be discouraged and that things will get better slowly. Doctors recommend that when the first night fails, one should maintain a good mood and proceed step by step each time. Men should not enter too roughly and forcefully, which may cause injury to the female vulva. Psychological counseling is recommended for patients with psychological problems.

4. Love bleeding or not, stay calm

The problem of first night bleeding troubles Chinese men and women. Foreigners don't care too much about whether or not there is bleeding during the first night. In traditional Chinese concepts, bleeding during the first night proves that it is the girl's first time and she is a virgin. However, this does not make sense medically, because the size and thickness of women's hymen are different, so the absence of bleeding does not mean that the woman is not a virgin. For example, strenuous exercise, cycling, etc. can cause the hymen to rupture, while some women's hymen will not rupture after multiple sexual intercourse. Therefore, don't care too much about that thin membrane. When a man cares too much, you should communicate with him more and dispel his concerns. In this regard, it is more important to communicate and agree beforehand, so that the man will not refuse to pay and say he wants to break up after having sex.

5. Use contraception to avoid getting hit

Be sure to be prepared for contraception and don't let momentary indulgence lead to lifelong regrets. In the gynecology area of ​​the hospital, you can often see girls going there alone to get an abortion, mostly because they don't know much about contraception. Therefore, you must be prepared. You can let the man wear a condom. Even if you have sex for the first time without any precautions, you should go to the pharmacy to buy emergency contraceptive pills within 72 hours afterwards. You must not be unable to get pregnant again because of an abortion. A friend of mine and her boyfriend had their virginity blindly not long after they met. Unexpectedly, they got pregnant, so they hastily bought a house and got married. Now they are getting married and waiting for the birth of a child. If their relationship goes well, then the marriage may be perfect. Otherwise, this pregnancy is a pity!

6. After your first night, wait a few days before having sex again

It is best to wait a few days before having sex again after your first time. American sex experts point out that after the first night, girls physically become women, but psychologically they often remain in the mindset of a young girl, especially premarital sex, which will make them have wild thoughts. It is suggested that after the first night, men should pay more attention to women’s psychological changes, and it is best to allow them a period of psychological acceptance and adaptation.