Being a full-time housewife is as comfortable as it is dangerous. Women must watch this!

They think that as long as they take good care of their husbands' daily life, they own the whole world! But they ignore that especially excellent men need spiritual communication and resonance!

There is another full-time housewife around me who is facing divorce. She said sadly: My parents are gone, and he is the only relative I have in this world. I don’t know why he is so heartless. Ten years of relationship is gone just like that? As a friend, I went to persuade her husband. I said: Do you know how much she loves you! You are her only relative. The man said: You are wrong, she loves herself, she knows very well that if she holds me tightly, she will have everything, she can give up her growth and change in the name of love for me and take care of me, how can I live well with a wife who has not grown for many years? I am too sad and tired, so I choose to give up...

I am familiar with this couple. The woman stopped working after getting married, and the man always said: I can support you. It was because of the man's solemn promise that the woman became a full-time housewife with peace of mind. Her whole world was to take care of her husband's daily life.

I once advised her to find a job. "What can I do?" Yes, she looked down upon ordinary jobs. As I grow older, this question becomes more and more relevant.

Finally, this day came when this story happened to me. The woman asked: Is my story particularly common? I said it was very common. Many marriage melodramas end this way. Women always wake up and regret only when the curtain of divorce is drawn.

Many people envy full-time housewives, who have such a leisurely and comfortable life, and can enjoy their lives without having to go through any hardships or work hard. But everything has its pros and cons. The more comfortable you are, the greater the risk.

It can be said that full-time housewives face greater risks than working women. Especially those professional women who have worked hard in the workplace often regard the life of a full-time housewife as a comprehensive vacation. When you can only go back and forth between the vegetable market and home every day, and the only topics you talk about are your husband, children, and discount information, you will feel alienated from society and lost deep in your heart. This leads to a sense of incompetence. This sense of "incompetence" will increase as the time spent away from society increases.

I have a beautiful girlfriend who has been a full-time housewife for more than three years after giving birth. Later she started working, but she changed jobs quite frequently. Later I found out that every time when she encountered problems at work, her husband would encourage her: Quit your job, it’s not like I can’t support you! In this way, my girlfriend would quit her job at any time and changed countless jobs like a revolving lantern. This is the aftereffect of being a full-time housewife. The "gap" in their careers not only made their careers lose continuity, but they also lost their persistence and tenacity due to the experience of being "full-time housewives".

To some extent, being a full-time housewife is a kind of "disability". A person needs two legs to keep balance when walking. As a woman, you must insist on walking on two legs. One leg is family and the other leg is work. Only when the two cooperate and coordinate with each other can we walk well and steadily.

Being a full-time housewife automatically cuts off one of her legs - work. As a result, she walks on one leg and limps. Not only will your speed be slower than others, but your risk will also increase by half. Once there are problems in your marriage, you are paralyzed.

The importance of work or career to everyone is not just that you get a certain amount of financial compensation from it, but more importantly, you constantly explore and develop yourself in the process of doing things, and constantly understand the society and people, including yourself. The improvement of your abilities in all aspects and the deepening of your understanding of yourself are the roots of pursuing happiness.