When your mother enters menopause, what else can you do besides complain?

Have you ever had this experience with your mother?

I went out without wearing long underwear and was nagged endlessly;

Socks thrown on the sofa, scolded to the point of doubting life;

I talked back, but was met with tears and hysterics.

...The mother who used to be gentle and soft-spoken suddenly changed, becoming nagging, irritable, negative... even crazy. But you don't know that before the explosion, she had endured countless times; after venting, she also secretly blamed herself.

You also don't know how many nights she didn't have a good sleep, and even woke up in sweat just after falling asleep;

You don't even know that when she is alone, she often feels depressed and cries secretly...

In fact, my mother hasn’t changed. She is just in menopause and is suffering physically and mentally. She needs an outlet to vent her emotions.

Physically, menopause is a normal physiological transition caused by the deterioration of ovarian function.

But psychologically, it is the moment when "a woman faces death for the first time". Behind menopause is uncontrolled urinary incontinence, loss of fertility, and irreversible aging...

It takes most women a year or even several years to break free from this state of physical and mental torment.

At this time, the understanding and love from her family is the best medicine to help her get through this darkest moment.

In the Korean drama "Reply 1988", Ms. Leopard seems to be still strong after entering menopause, but in the dead of night, she will take off her disguise and reveal her vulnerable side.

Fortunately, Ms. Leopard has a son, Gouhuan, who looks cold but has a soft heart.

Under Gou Huan's careful planning, Ms. Leopard and her husband held a romantic wedding again, which made her feel the happiness of being loved and cared for again.

She happily told her son, "Mom's menopause passed in a flash."

Perhaps in the future, Ms. Leopard will have many more "menopausal" moments, but the love and care from her family must be the warmest place in her heart.

From childhood to adulthood,

Whether we are 3 or 30,

Mom will do everything she can to protect us.

When I grow up,

Let us give more love to our mothers who have worked hard all their lives!

1. Call her often and listen to her talk and complain;

2. Go home more often, spend more time with her, and help her with housework;

3. Create some surprises occasionally to make her happy;

4. Act as a mediator between parents and guide dad to understand and care more about mom.

If you really can't do it, then remember these four "life-saving mantras":

Don't fight back!

Don’t talk back when you are scolded!

Never talk back!

No reason!

Image source: TV series "Reply 1988"