Is it good to leave your children in your hometown when you work hard in other places? What are the disadvantages of leaving your children to the elderly?

For the sake of family life, many parents have to choose to send their children to their hometown to be raised by their grandparents. The children cannot feel the love of their parents since childhood and become left-behind children. However, sending the children back to their hometown as left-behind children cannot buy back the love of the children, no matter how much gold and silver you have.

Is it okay to work in another place and leave your children at home?

Left-behind children are separated from their parents for a long time. Living with the elderly, they cannot get high-quality companionship and upbringing, which can easily lead to a series of psychological problems. Most elderly people cannot pay attention to the inner world of children, let alone respect them. When children are sad because they miss their parents far away, when children become increasingly withdrawn due to lack of companionship, become less talkative, more inferior and sensitive, more lonely, and less secure... Elderly people may still think that it is good enough to feed and clothe their children. Why are children nowadays so pretentious?

What are the disadvantages of leaving children with the elderly?

Because of the "generation gap" relationship, the elderly will love their grandchildren very much. As long as the child wants something, they will try their best to satisfy him. As long as the child keeps crying, they will let him get what he wants. Do the elderly love children? Of course the elderly love them, and even love them more than the children's parents, but the way the elderly raise children is very inappropriate. Excessive doting will only make the children grow up more and more willful and self-centered. They will not know how to tolerate and understand others, and will not care about the feelings of others. Such children will not be welcomed anywhere when they grow up.

Why don't we let our children become left-behind children?

It is difficult for left-behind children to develop good behavioral habits

When the elderly take care of children, they pay more attention to making sure the babies are well fed, warmly clothed, not sick, and happy and safe every day. They don't know how to focus on cultivating good behavioral habits in children, such as children's independent self-care ability, children's hygiene habits and eating habits, etc. In these aspects, most parents can do better than the elderly.

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Left-behind children pose a great safety hazard

Many elderly people in rural areas take care of their children in their hometowns, and their safety awareness is not very high. The children are always under the potential threat of being abducted by human traffickers or molested or violated by people with ulterior motives. In the minds of the older generation, they do not think that there are so many bad people around them. They usually raise their children in a free-range manner and do not worry about any accidents happening to their children. Little do they know that in today's society, human traffickers and various criminals are becoming more and more rampant. As a child's family, you must be particularly cautious and always pay attention to protecting your child's safety.