Girls don't dare to do it because it's ugly

Life is more open nowadays, so many men and women have already had sex when they are in love. The reason why some women are afraid of sex is not only because they do not trust men, but also because they think their private parts are ugly and they would be shy in front of men. After all, human beings' primitive self-esteem will play a role. So what should girls do if they are afraid to have sex because their private parts are ugly?

Sexual intercourse between men and women must be mutually agreed upon or reached through communication. Forcing is illegal. You can have sex only when she agrees. When a woman is stimulated or excited, a lot of secretions will flow out of her vagina. This is a normal reflex. It doesn't mean she necessarily agrees with your approach. Don't force it if you don't agree.

What are girls worried about and thinking about?

1. If it is the first sexual intercourse, the more a girl loves you, the more she will worry about whether her body shape satisfies you.

Girls care about their figure to the same extent as boys worry about their own performance. The more a girl likes you, the more she will worry about her figure not being good enough. After all, it's a matter of being honest and frank, and an insecure girl will still worry about herself.

Even whether their makeup looks good or their posture is elegant can cause girls to feel anxious. Because the more familiar you are with yourself, the more you will magnify your shortcomings. Even if a girl already has a good figure, she will still be dissatisfied with herself.

Suggestion: Boys should praise girls as much as possible before having sex with them to increase their self-confidence and help them get out of their inferiority complex, so that they can show a better version of themselves.

2. Afraid that boys will look down on them, so they are reluctant to "get out"

Boys may view "sex" as a necessary mission and need in life, just like eating and sleeping. There is no strong sense of ceremony. Girls are different. They take this matter very seriously and feel that it takes a lot of courage to give themselves to a man.

There may only be one time in your life when you can give your whole self to a boy. If they easily sleep with a boy, they are more worried that the boy will look down on them from then on.

I feel very frivolous. Or even more so, will the two people drift apart after having sex?

If the two of us break up one day, I might be accused of being immoral and fickle. For more learning tips, search the Bad Boy Community and make the girl you like fall in love with you!

Suggestion: Girls’ worries are unfounded, so what boys need to do is to be more caring towards girls after having sex, so that they can feel your courage and determination to move towards the future together.