Psychological characteristics of a 37-year-old woman

A survey shows that family problems are most likely to occur when the husband is 40 and the wife is 37, and the divorce rate is also quite high. The most confusing age for women is 30, because their mentality is not yet mature, their children are still young, and there are many unstable factors in their marriage. Women in their forties, on the contrary, are much more cheerful, calm and indifferent. They no longer need to compete with young women for beautiful looks, nor do they cry over the loss of love. It seems that my heart has become stronger and I have a clearer understanding of the meaning of my life.

1. Life trivia accumulates into resentment

Among women over 37 years old, it is very common for couples to be physically together but spiritually apart. A survey shows that 20% of couples eventually divorce because of poor communication over trivial matters. The daily necessities accumulated over many years of marriage have become the most hurtful weapon. The first three years of marriage are the adjustment period, the seventh year is the dangerous period, and after ten years is the burnout period. The average marriage age for a 37-year-old woman is around 10 years. In the first two or three years, everyone is in the adjustment period and is still tolerant; after six or seven years, everyone knows it is very dangerous, so they are cautious; after ten years, everyone feels that the other person is like their right-hand man or her, and thinks that family affection has replaced love, so small things that were not a problem before will be brought up for quarrels, and small quarrels become too frequent and very hurtful. In addition, after 10 years of marriage, the couple has become very different from when they got married, both in appearance and in their behavior. The differences in personality, outlook on life, views on money, attitudes towards educating children, etc. will be exposed unreservedly during this period. Any one of these problems is enough to paralyze the marriage.

2. External temptations lead to derailment

After 10 years of ups and downs in a marriage, the passion gradually fades. If the mentality of both parties in the marriage is not adjusted in time, it may create opportunities for an affair to occur. After the passion fades, there are two types of behaviors among women in their thirties and forties. One type of people, like men, are not satisfied with the status quo. Most of them will seek comfort from their colleagues and friends, and some will even develop to the point of divorce. The other type will consider many factors and either try hard to save the marriage or silently endure a miserable life without love.

The mentality that women in their thirties and forties should have

A forty-year-old woman should understand that creating a happy family requires not only love, but also wisdom and skills, and that showing care should also pay attention to the way and language used. A forty-year-old woman has a deeper understanding of herself. The impetuousness and impulsiveness of her youth are childish, and the power of self-confidence and style is more powerful. A forty-year-old woman is no longer at the age of being a vase beauty and should strive to play a comprehensive role in the professional arena. Women in their forties must learn to face setbacks rationally and optimistically, pay attention to psychological regulation, remember to keep a balanced mentality, and take the decision of their destiny into their own hands.