What are the effects of a mother's bad temper on her children?

For mothers, you must learn to control your temper in life, because your bad temper is not good for the healthy growth of your children. It will give your children more pressure and is not conducive to the development of good character in your children.

Problem 1: It is difficult for boys to become masculine.

Children have little understanding of male power and will suffer from "lack of fatherly love syndrome", lack masculinity, develop slowly in weight, height, movement, etc., and have emotional disorders such as anxiety and poor self-control. They will also become cowardly, timid, withdrawn, and have low self-esteem in character. When they enter society in the future, they will experience various discomforts and will be unable to act according to their gender role norms. They will like to marry strong women and will not be able to become a husband worthy of reliance.

Problem two: It makes children disrespect authority.

In a family where patriarchy is lost, children will not only fail to learn to respect authority and understand hierarchy from their father, but will also think that men are like their father. At the same time, in dysfunctional families, children facing a strong mother will often instinctively try to please the "stronger" person, especially boys. They will also follow their mother and unconsciously rebel against their father and not attach importance to his opinions.

Problem three: children are overprotected.

A mother who is too strong is a sign of her lack of security, which will make her a typical protector. They are afraid that the problems they are worried about will happen to their children. So they want to filter out anything that is not good for their children and try their best to avoid it from happening. As a result, the mother takes care of everything and requires the child to follow her in thought and behavior. Eventually, the child will know nothing and be completely dependent on the mother, which further confirms the mother's idea.

Problem four: putting too much pressure on children.

Strong mothers are often highly capable and perfectionists. They regard raising children as a way to achieve self-realization and demand that their children do their best. Thus, they invisibly impose their will on their children and attach their own values ​​to their children. It cannot be denied that these strong mothers give a lot, but it is precisely these "sacrifices" that make the children feel stressed, easily causing them to lose their sense of security and self-confidence, and causing psychological inferiority in them when they grow up.