What should I do if I feel sexually apathetic after giving birth?

Sex is a way to increase feelings between men and women, and also a way for each other to vent. In the adult world, sex is an indispensable thing. Many women feel that they have signs of sexual frigidity after giving birth, which can lead to discord between couples. So, what should they do if they feel sexually frigid after giving birth? Next, the editor will give you a detailed introduction to what is going on.

Lack of sexual desire is the primary problem of this disorder. The diagnosis can be established as long as the patient's sexual receptivity is impaired or the initial level of sexual behavior is reduced, making it difficult to initiate sexual activity, rather than a secondary symptom.

The CCMD-2-R diagnostic criteria for hyposexuality are:

①Adulthood rather than old age;

② Lack of sexual interest and desire for sexual activity;

③Continue for at least three months.

④ It is not caused by organic brain disease, physical illness, alcohol or drugs, nor is it part of the symptoms of some other mental disorder (such as neurosis, depression, schizophrenia). To prevent sexual apathy, you need to eliminate worries. Sexual apathy is a normal phenomenon for middle-aged people, but reduction does not mean complete disappearance, and temporary disappearance does not mean permanent disappearance. As long as you can correctly recognize and understand this physiological change and make good psychological adjustments, the prevention of sexual apathy requires eliminating stress, concentrating on improving your own and the other person's pleasure, and finding and eliminating the causes of low sexual desire. Men should not only get rid of their own negative emotions, but also help their partners overcome this psychological barrier. Help your partner understand the nature and possible causes of the problem, so she can avoid putting pressure on herself and promote communication between the two parties. Sometimes, the woman has been hiding and suppressing her pain and hatred (such as premature ejaculation) when the man is in his prime, and only expresses it in a sarcastic form when the man's problem becomes serious. At this time, she must be reminded that what the man needs is sympathy.

The above is some information about sexual indifference after giving birth. Female friends don’t need to be too nervous about this matter. In daily life, you should avoid having sex when you are in a bad mood, avoid smoking and drinking, and don’t take medicine randomly. It is also possible that sexual apathy is caused by external conditions.