Should you have an office romance? What should you do if an office romance breaks down?

Many of my colleagues' companies have regulations regarding office romances. Some support office romances, while others do not. Some of my colleagues may have questions: should they agree if a colleague pursues them? Will office romances really affect work? Love should be free, so why don't leaders support us?

Should we have office romance?

I can tell you clearly that office romance will affect your work! Because the workplace is not the place for you to have a relationship, and your boss hired you to work because of your work ability. If you distract your attention because of a relationship, you will easily be fired by the company.

Therefore, if you are too worried about gains and losses, you may be fired by your boss. Workplace romance is generally not allowed. This situation happens frequently, so it is best not to have a workplace romance.

What to do when your office romance breaks down

For anything, we must consider the B side when considering the A side. For example, in love, while enjoying the happiness and dizziness of love, we must also know the hurt that a breakup can bring. The deeper the love, the deeper the hurt. Therefore, people in love must first have the courage to expose their hearts to the other person. People who don't have this courage will not fall in love.

Adults must consider both side A and side B. Those who only consider side A and not side B can only be children and cannot truly become adults. Therefore, when you choose a benefit, you must think clearly about the cost in advance. For an adult, since you have chosen an office romance, you must consider in advance whether you can bear the pain of a breakup. If you can bear it, then start an office romance. The reason why many people fall into pain in middle age is that they never calculate the risks and only think about the benefits when everything goes well.

If the relationship breaks down, please face the fact, bear the pain, and grow from the choices you make. Take full responsibility for your own life, this is the world of adults.

Why don't bosses like office romances?

As long as you try to look at this matter from the leader's perspective, you will understand it instantly.

Whether in real life or in movies and TV dramas, office romances always have more or less impact on work.

When you are in love, your emotions will affect your work direction; once the relationship fails, the feeling of heartbreak will spread to your work and affect your work efficiency.