Why do children become frigid after birth?

Many female friends have reported that after having children, they are no longer interested in sex as before, and can be said to have become cold. This is mainly due to starting sex too early, being overworked, improper contraceptive measures, reproductive system diseases, etc. In the face of this situation, you must handle it correctly, otherwise it will affect the relationship between husband and wife.

1. Starting sexual life too early.

After a woman gives birth, the changes in the whole body and reproductive system caused by pregnancy and childbirth will have a certain inhibitory effect on sexual desire. Generally, it will take two months after delivery for various organs to return to normal and sexual desire to gradually return to its pre-pregnancy state.

If couples do not understand this, they may start sexual life too early after childbirth, especially some husbands who do what they want without their wives' consent. This not only affects the wife's physical recovery, but also causes her to be disgusted and disgusted with sex life, and then develop into sexual frigidity.

2. Overwork.

A harmonious and happy sex life needs to be based on good health and energy. After giving birth, women often focus their energy on their children and have little interest in sex itself. If at this time the husband stands by and does not do anything about the children and housework, is not considerate, caring, or helpful, and lets his wife be busy alone, while he himself only becomes restless after going to bed, then of course he will not be able to make his wife actively participate in sex life.

3. Improper contraceptive measures.

Some women do not take effective contraceptive measures after giving birth.

When having sex, I am always nervous because of the fear of pregnancy. In addition, some couples take the method of interrupting sexual intercourse as a means of contraception, interrupting sexual intercourse every time when they are in high spirits and the wife is close to orgasm. Over time, this may lead to sexual frigidity.

4. Reproductive system diseases.

Some women are left with scars due to tearing of the vulva and vagina during childbirth, which reduces the sexual sensitivity of the vulva or makes the vagina narrow, causing pain during sexual intercourse.

Some women experience discomfort during sexual intercourse due to postpartum complications of endometriosis or chronic pelvic inflammatory disease.

Some women also suffer from trichomoniasis or candidal vaginitis, which leads to increased vaginal discharge, vulvar itching, burning pain, etc., which can suppress their sexual desire to varying degrees.