Why do girls become so cold when they no longer love boys? What should I do if a girl becomes so cold when she no longer loves him?

We all know that in the process of falling in love, the feelings between the two parties are often fragile and sometimes difficult to maintain, so some people will choose to let go, start to give up on the other party, no longer care about any news about the other party, and don't contact anything about the other party. So why do girls become particularly cold after they stop loving boys? Let's take a closer look!

Why do girls become so cold after they stop loving boys?

Two possibilities:

1. They really don’t love you anymore and hope you’ll give up, so they are very cold.

2. They actually still have feelings for you, but they are afraid that they will become soft-hearted and compromise after contacting or chatting with you, so they can only be cold to you.

In the first case, girls will often cut off any form of contact with you and will no longer contact or interact with you. They will choose to delete what they can delete, and try to avoid what they can't delete, in short, they want you to completely give up.

In this case, the best option is to let go completely according to the girl's wishes.

In the second case, girls usually won’t cut off contact with you right away, and may even occasionally reply to your messages. Once you cross the line and can’t help wanting to get closer, girls may take similar approaches to the previous case, further avoiding contact with you, or even directly blocking or deleting you. But what’s interesting is that even if girls in the second case do this, they still can’t help but find out about your current situation through some means, and you’ll definitely notice it if you’re interested.

In the second case, you must also obey the girl's wishes, cooperate with her to cut off contact, and work hard to improve yourself during this period. Believe me, the other party will see it. And when the better you appears in front of her again, it is time for your relationship to move forward again.

What should I do if a girl becomes cold and indifferent to me?

There are many reasons why girls are inexplicably cold to you. Here are some common examples:

1. You have other competitors who are pursuing this girl harder than you are.

Many outstanding girls will not have only one or two suitors. If one of them wins the girl's favor, the girl will be cold to the other suitors, telling them in this euphemistic way that they are rejected.

2. What have you done that girls find particularly offensive?

There are many well-educated girls who will not get angry at the time to avoid embarrassing you when you do something that makes them extremely disgusted or unacceptable, but will be cold to you afterwards.

3. She is particularly dissatisfied with a condition you suddenly discovered

Maybe she accidentally found out that one of your conditions makes her particularly dissatisfied, and she feels that you two are not suitable.

4. She is ready to tell you what her shortcomings are

Some girls will suddenly become cold to boys, waiting for them to fight back, and then tell them about their shortcomings (such as any diseases).

How to deal with a woman who is cold in conversation

1. Find the reason for yourself. Do you find the right topic? Don't talk about everything that happened to you. The girl may answer you at first, but she will get bored slowly. You should start with the girl's interests. Of course, you may not know her interests. At this time, you should dig out her interests and find funny pictures on the Internet, such as the dog smile picture that has been very popular on the Internet recently. If the girl doesn't give a perfunctory answer, it means that the girl likes animals. You will have an excuse to ask the girl out to play because there is an animal competition somewhere. After all, online chatting is not as good as hanging out in real life. Some people like to talk online but are very boring in real life. You will know more.

2. She really has begun to dislike you. At this time, you should start to be low-key. A person who hates you will be perfunctory in answering you no matter how interested she is in the topic you are talking about. You should reduce the frequency of chatting with her. Chatting with her is also about her. This is a relaxation period. The relaxation period is very difficult but the most effective way to make her stop disliking you. Maybe the girl will wonder why you talk less and whether something happened to you.