Should boys and girls be educated differently? What is the most effective way to educate boys?

Everyone knows that boys and girls are different physically, but they are also very different psychologically and in living habits. Therefore, it is best to educate boys and girls differently. The methods of educating boys and girls are different. So what methods should be used to educate boys? Is there anything we need to pay attention to when educating boys?

Should boys and girls be educated differently?

Boys and girls are different physically, and their living habits and personalities are also quite different. Therefore, they should be educated differently.

Physiologically, girls develop earlier than boys, and their prefrontal cortexes mature at different times. Girls mature around the age of 21, while boys mature around the age of 25. The prefrontal cortex of the brain controls people's emotions, social skills, reactions to things, and self-control.

What is the most effective way to educate boys?

Visuals are an effective means of communication. Boys are wired differently than girls. Boys rely more on vision, while girls rely more on emotion. It doesn't take a lot of effort to get a boy interested in something. When those fast, colorful, high-tech images are presented to him, he is easily attracted.

Therefore, the most effective way for parents to communicate with their children is through visual means. When communicating with children, use language to describe some visual pictures. If children can imagine what those pictures look like, your communication will be much smoother.

What should we pay attention to when educating boys?

1. Be more patient when educating boys.

Many parents will say that boys are active and energetic and never stop. When parents hear teachers complain that their children are active, they can't help but want to slap their children. Parents should be more patient when educating boys. They should understand their behavior and not label their children as "ADHD" without a hospital examination. Usually, parents should let their children participate in more sports, which can release their energy. Sports can also improve children's self-control and concentration.

2. When educating boys, we must treat children’s aggressiveness correctly.

Boys have aggression in their sex hormones. That is to say, boys are born with aggression. Parents should treat their children's aggression correctly. They can help them express their anger by shouting or hitting pillows, instead of hitting others. When children are playing aggressive games, you can talk to them about this kind of game. Let them know what consequences will come to others if they use violence to attack others, and what methods can be used to solve problems in life.

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Every boy needs his own time alone, parents must learn to trust him and give him enough time. If he breaks your trust and does something he shouldn't do, you need to tighten the "reins" and watch him more closely until he wins his alone time again.