What should I do if I can't marry the person I like? Do I really have to let go if I can't marry the person I like?

Many people's love is not smooth sailing. It is hard to say whether the relationship is deep or shallow. What should I do if I can't marry the person I like? In fact, the things, objects, and people I like are not necessarily the best. Everything has gains and losses, so we should look at it dialectically. Read the article below to find out!

What should I do if I can't marry the person I love?

The reason why you can’t get married is that you don’t want it enough.

You have no confidence in your lover and no obsession with your love.

Some of the reasons you mentioned may just be excuses for your own lack of ability. Nowadays, it is not like the feudal and arranged marriages in the past. You have your own freedom.

Imagine sleeping in the same bed with someone you don’t love but having different dreams in your marriage. Isn’t that also unfair to the other person?

If you are bound by your excuses and prevent people in love from being together, it is your sorrow and the other person's mistake.

If I can't marry the person I love, should I really let go?

First you need to ask yourself how important she is to you. If she is very important and has become a part of your life, then you need to find out why you can't marry her. Is it because your parents don't agree, or because of different ideas, or because of family background, or because of personality incompatibility? Find the reason and try your best to win her back. After all, a relationship is hard to come by.

If you try your best but still cannot marry her, it proves that you cannot give her a sense of security. So you might as well try to let go. Loving someone does not mean you have to get her, as long as she is happy, isn't it? Isn't your ultimate goal to make her happy?

When you choose to let go, you may feel sad and heartbroken at first, but time is the best medicine. It will heal all your pains. May you find your own true happiness.

Either divorce or live on. Since you have married someone, you must be responsible for them and yourself. No matter what the reason for the marriage, being together is fate. In fact, marriage is supposed to be plain and long-lasting. Like our parents' generation, how many of them got together because of free love? But they were fine after marriage. But if you meet someone you like after marriage and you want to be together forever, then divorce quickly and don't delay others.

What should I do if my parents don't agree to marry the person I like?

If it is because of your parents, you can talk to them.

My aunt previously thought that the man her daughter was dating was too poor and was afraid that she would suffer if she married him.

But what did the boy do? He called my aunt every day after get off work, told the girl's mother about his future plans, and coaxed his mother-in-law. Gradually, my aunt was no longer opposed to this boy.

Now my sister and brother-in-law live a happy life.

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This question reminds me of the ending of A Chinese Odyssey. What can I do? It seems like there is nothing I can do.

If you really don't want to and still want to marry her, then make yourself strong, so strong that nothing can stop you from marrying her. If you can't do that, then learn from the ending of A Chinese Odyssey and do whatever you should do. There is no point in thinking about it.

It's best to be able to let go. If you can't let go, don't let down the woman who will marry you and have children with you in the future. Just let it go.