Fourteen reasons for female sexual frigidity you need to know!

There are many reasons for female sexual apathy. If there is a history of sexual trauma in childhood, it is easy to cause sexual apathy. In addition, if there is some reproductive inflammation or a history of pain during sexual intercourse, it is also easy to cause sexual apathy. Some chronic diseases and psychological reasons can easily lead to symptoms of sexual apathy in women, so it is necessary to understand the specific cause and then carry out symptomatic conditioning or treatment.

1. A history of sexual trauma (rape, incest, sexual harassment, etc.) in the past or even in childhood.

2. During puberty, people are afraid of being known about certain abnormalities in their body shape and develop a sense of inferiority.

3. After a failed relationship or marriage, they think they have been deceived and even develop a revengeful mentality towards men.

4. Worry about the pain that may be caused by pregnancy, curettage, sexually transmitted diseases, etc., and thus avoid sexual contact.

5. Pain or discomfort during sexual intercourse makes them afraid of sexual intercourse.

6. The woman only regards sex as a wife's obligation, rather than as her own physiological and psychological need like eating. If this is coupled with a lack of sexual knowledge that results in insufficient sex skills, monotonous sex methods, and even orgasm disorders, sex will become boring.

7. Having too high expectations on one’s spouse. After marriage, one finds that the husband in reality is very different from the ideal spouse one had before marriage, but one is unwilling to face and adapt to the reality.

8. The husband lacks sexual attraction or has sexual dysfunction.

9. When the relationship between the husband and wife is tense or bad, the wife will refuse sexual intercourse as a means of revenge or coercion. (This is the stupidest method in the world, which will lead to divorce, extramarital affairs, and impotence and premature ejaculation of the husband, and the ultimate victim will be the avenger himself).

10. The side effects of some acute and serious diseases, chronic diseases and their treatment drugs can reduce sexual interest, or suppress sexual desire due to concerns that sexual activity may aggravate the disease or harm the body.

11. Work stress, fatigue, alcoholism or excessive mental pressure caused by something may lead to a lack of sexual desire.

12. After giving birth, the body shape changes, and one may think that he or she has lost the attraction to the opposite sex, or may shift too much attention from the husband to the child (some may also satisfy their sexual desire because of the pleasure produced by the baby sucking the nipple), or may lose the passion for sex due to the tedious housework.

13. Some women feel that their genitals are unclean and are afraid of defiling their spouses.

14. Influenced by traditional moral education since childhood, they believe that "women cannot take the initiative to make sexual demands, otherwise they are promiscuous", "in the life of a couple, the man should take the initiative in sexual intercourse, and the woman should passively cooperate", "sexual intercourse is a shameless behavior", etc. Even if they have sexual desire, they dare not express it clearly. Long-term suppression of sexual desire may develop into sexual frigidity.